Are You In Control?

20 April 2009

agree those are the best signs to letting you know you're in a controlling relationship. I can testify to some of those things because I went through quite a few things with my first and I grew very tired of dealing with this guy very fast. All I have to say is Ladies and Gentlemen if you are in this type of relationship, please get out of it fast because that person is not going to change. There is much better out there for you and if someone loves you they are not going to harass you to do things you're not comfortable with and they're going to treat you as if you were the best thing to ever happen to them and of course no one needs that extra stress on them, because we all know life itself throws enough curve balls to us all. You need someone who's going to comfort you not make you feel low.

In your relationship or marriage are you in control or are you being controlled?

We all have freedom of choice the last time I checked. We have the freedom to choose who we date, what job we have, what we do in daily life, who we marry, etc. But somehow we get in these awful relationships where our significant other controls a lot of what we do. Sometimes we don't realize it's happening at all or we just don't want to acknowledge it.

Not a lot of people are a big fan of being single, so you meet a really great guy or gal and things are going great until they become comfortable. The true colors always come out when one person becomes too comfortable with the other. Here are some signs that you are probably in a controlling relationship and need to RUN FOR THE HILLS!

1. They says they will dump you if you don't do this (fill in blank) so you do it.
2. You ask them if your allowed to go with your friends somewhere.
3. You ask if you brushed your teeth good enough for them.
4. You ask their permission to buy something for yourself.
5. You flat out just ask permission for everything because you don't want them to get mad at you.
6. They are allowed to say or do certain things but you are not allowed.
7. They make you feel like your not good enough.
8. They never let you make any choices.
9. They always turn things they have done wrong back on you, making it out to be your fault.
10. You are miserable!!!!

source: shine from yahoo